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SMART GoalsYou may be familiar with the concept of SMART goals. SMART is an acronym used in the fitness world and beyond to consolidate aims and objectives. For an increased chance of success, your goals should be:
What does that "tense and voice" mean? Simple, for all you non-grammar majors out there. Present tense = "I am doing it now." Most people write goals in the future tense: "I will do it." Know what... if you say "I'll do it" that is the same as saying "One of these days, I'll get around to doing it, if I don't find some easy excuse not to." So you have to stick to the present, not the future: I'm doing it NOW. Same with active voice ("I am doing it") vs. passive voice: ("It will be done.") Now is the time to take responsibility for your actions. Your fitness won't be done for you. You have to remove butt from chair and.... Knowing that you want to lose weight is fine, but understanding what your target weight will be and what this will mean for your life, what opportunities this will offer you, what outfits this will allow you to wear and how you will feel when you have achieved the result, is even more motivating.
I am at Point A and I need to set a plan to get me to point B.
Dreaming alone won't make it come true. You still have to add the sweat.
This allows you to feel the sense of achievement and success that you deserve. It is fine to reset some new goals at this point, but ensure that you enjoy the moment of victory before moving on. If you do not establish how you will know when you have achieved your goal well in advance, the tendency is to keep moving the goalposts. This may lead to you feeling like you never succeed, despite the fact that you may have hit your initial targets and gone beyond them ages ago. Don't forget, then, to add some rewards along the way. When you make a particularly tough goal, plan out the reward you get at that point. Just make sure your rewards aren't counterproductive such as "when I lose another 5 pounds, I can have the Gut Buster Sundae with extra chocolate sauce." That's not a good reward for a weight loss goal. Plan something non-food related: I only get new electronic gadgets (like my new ipod shuffle!) by making a goal in the gym.
People sometimes make giant mental leaps to associate losing weight with being completely happy, enjoying life at all times and sometimes even finding a new partner. If all this does not happen they may become frustrated. The goal was too big and "single step." They didn't have the intermediate steps to get to that one point, so frustration sets in, and the goal dies on the vine. Make sure that you know that hitting your target fitness level or weight may get you many things, but not necessarily a new lover! Focus on what it will definitely get you, not what it might lead to.
There's no "Magic Pill" to instant rewards. Along the same lines, you must establish if there is any cost to anyone else of you achieving your goal. If a by-product of you embarking on a fitness program is that you spend more time out of the house away from your partner, you must consider how this will affect him. If you choose your specific weight loss program, there might be a completely different kind of food in stock in the house which may have implications for your family. You need to be fully aware of these issues and able to anticipate a way around them before causing chaos at home.
Now get down and give me fifty!
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